Sexual fetishism, or erotic fetishism, is the sexual arousal a person receives from a physical object, or from a specific situation. The object or situation of interest is called the fetish, the person a fetishist who has a fetish for that object/situation.
We all have something sexual that turns us on. But deep down in the freaky pits of our sexuality we have that something extra on our sexual menu. Everyone has a fetish. Some are mild and some are what the hell, but each one makes for an interesting sex life.
I came across WAM or Sploshing on an episode of Real Sex, the HBO show that came on in the mid-to late 90′s. In my opinion it’s like taking food and sex to a whole other level. I am used to using whip cream and strawberries but not whip cream,strawberries,ice cream,and pies and dumping them all over my body. I did a little digging and found out the fetish term came from England by Bill Shipton who is the creator of “Sploshing Magazine”. http://www.maximumawesome.com/ defines Sploshing as “Sploshers enjoy having various substances poured over them and thrown at them, they enjoy sitting on cakes, in bowls of pudding, in gelatin, and they love the cream pie in the face as much as any aficionado of slapstick comedy. Some sploshers have sex during and after the mess-making, while others, the sexual release is found through the very act of sploshing and no further activity is required.”
As a black woman I don’t like getting my hair wet let alone having cake put in it, yet the thought of rolling around in jello does seem like fun! I will try this fetish one day. I will make sure I wear a head wrap and do it in someone else’s house. No way in hell am I cleaning up that sploshing mess.