My Lover Can’t Make Me Orgasm-Ask Nikki True

One of my True Loves asked me for some advice. She can’t achieve an orgasm with her man and wants him to become more in tune with her sexually

A lover not making you orgasm is a problem most women face. First you have to know that orgasms are mental not just physical so you are having a mental block to your orgasm. Can you think about something that your lover is doing outside the bedroom that may be keeping you from releasing your full sexual self? Second communication is going to be key! Tell him that he is not doing the things you need to climax. If he is a “quick pumper” tell him that you need him to slow down. When you are not lubricated well it will make sex painful so telling him the truth is not only good for him but you also. You stated that he isn’t very romantic and if that is something you place high on your relationship list then that needs to be said. You also said he was watching the finals while you were having sex?!? OH HELL NO! When you two are being intimate the only thing he should be focused on is the pleasure that the sex is giving not the winning jump shot! It sounds like he needs a crash course in YOU. He needs to understand that what may have worked for one girl will not work for you.  He needs to learn who you are inside and outside the sheets and you will have to teach him. During a love-making session blind fold him and make him learn your body. Let his hands wander (and tongue) all around your curves and let him know what feels good and what doesn’t. It’s a sexy way to get him to pay attention to your pleasure. Older men tend to be stuck in their sexual ways so this may take some time. Be firm in your want of sensuality.

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Nikki True