- Sep272012
I Love Wiz Khalifa And Amber Rose As A Couple
Written by nikkitrue in Relationships at 3:42 pm
In today’s TMZ society it can become easy to get burned out on celebrities and who they are hunching on this week. In fact I honestly lose track and don’t care. But I will say that one couple has managed to tug at my kinky little heartstrings and that couple is Wiz Khalifa and Amber Rose. I know you will give me a BITCH IS YOU CRAZY FACE, but they are a great role model for couples.
Amber Rose was the muse for mega rapper Kanye West. In my opinion she was basically a hanger with a nice ass. She never did interviews,never talked, but she looked fantastic doing it. I never felt any love between Kanye or Amber but dammit I could look at them all day. When the relationship ended many people wrote her off and thought she would return back to her Philly roots and do strip club appearances. How could she find love after being with KANYE WEST? Folks weren’t thinking love but money. How can you find all that money again when you have been with KANYE WEST?
Wiz Khalifa was a burgeoning new rapper from Pittsburgh who was getting a great buzz with a song called Black And Yellow. He had a small fling with the big chin bitch from The Bad Girls Club yet that fell through. Now he could have easily gotten hooked into the rapper dates other big chin chicks but he took a turn for the better when he met Amber Rose. Wiz wasn’t rolling in dough or charting jet planes but he has a charming personality and is a down to earth guy which is sexy. Now you would think on their first date they would go to somewhere 5 star but that was not the case. Wiz describes their first dinner
It was when I was moving out to L.A. and she had actually already lived there at the time and we lived in Hollywood. We were trying to find a nice little spot to get something to eat- something low key.
We just went to Mel’s diner, sat down, got some turkey burgers and some strawberry lemonade … and that was our first date.
Read more: Wiz Khalifa Describes First Date With Amber Rose, Serenades Her On Stage | Necole Bitchie.com
Now they are engaged, expecting their first child, and happier than ever as a couple. Everytime I see them together I feel so much love coming from them. Amber doesn’t care about his hits or dollars, when she speaks about him she only speaks highly of him. She gushes about him being her baby. Even when more nude pictures of her very pretty pooni leaked it made them stronger and he loved her through it. Although we may not have nude pictures leak you still want someone to love you through your rough times. Wiz couldn’t be happier. I love how in an industry where rappers are supposed to be playboys, he goes totally against it and only has eyes for his rose. When Kanye was going on stages and talking crazy about her Wiz kept his cool although he had reasons to fly out and kick his ass. We all can learn a little something from this cute little couple. Love doesn’t equal a dollar sign or status. Love isn’t trips around the world. Love can be as simple as a burger and shake. Love equals respect and falling in love with the same person many times.
Aug102012Monogamy…Is That Your Final Answer?
Written by nikkitrue in Relationships at 3:05 am
For as long as I could remember I was told about the rules of marriage. According to modern society marriage is to be a monogamous, to be between a man and a woman, and to be for life. Yet if we let scientist tell it monogamy is against human nature. An article from The Huffington Post suggest that monogamy is not meant to be what we live by:
Monogamy isn’t the only option when it comes to being in a relationship or marriage. While I don’t want you to now use this as an excuse to cheat, I do want you to keep in mind there are many ways to have a marriage and it work. Swingers were wife swapping way before NBC made it a family friendly show. The North American Swingers Club Association describes swinging as:
Swingers don’t broadcast their lifestyle out of fear of social criticism. The average age for a swinging couple is 38 and have been married for 7 years or more. Many have said this lifestyle has saved their marriage from divorce.
If you believe in loving more than one person maybe you are Polyamorous. The Polyamory Society defines Polyamory as
Polyamory let’s you have love in abundance since you are not tied down to one person. The downside is that jealousy can be strong if one of the people involved start to feel neglected. While people may look at this form of a relationship as greedy. This would actually work with the theory that monogamy is not natural. You are able to love whoever your heart connects to without the thought of cheating or going against the norm.
If more than one partner is too much but monogamy still isn’t for you then you may be a “Moderate Monogamist” or “Monogamish”. Popular gay rights activist and “It Get’s Better” campaign co-creator Dan Savage made up this term to describe some gay relationships but I feel that this could also work for the heteros.
All of these lifestyles to me makes a lot of sense and this is why. I never believed in cheating being the sexual act itself but the lying that goes into hiding your infidelities. In each of these lifestyles the partner should be honest with you giving you a choice to participate in sharing or loving someone else. As long as you are practicing safe sex, keeping communication open, and living your truth is it wrong? Although we are told that marriage and love are supposed to be one way, that doesn’t necessarily make it your way. If you and your partner find yourself questioning the state of your relationship maybe you should look into other alternative ways to love.
Jul3020125 Reasons To Stay Married
Written by nikkitrue in Relationships at 8:00 am
Last week we went into why we need to stay single and people really were all about it. Now its time to give my married folks some shine. When you find love it’s a great addition to your life. When you make a commitment to someone you should understand that it is two personalities,thoughts,and opinions living your lives together. Being single has its perks,but being married comes with its own set of benefits. Here are some great reasons for why you may need to put a ring on it. And keep it there
- A Homie,Lover,Friend All In One- When you are single you usually have one person who makes you laugh, one person who you can tell anything to, and one person who gives you amazing sex. When you are married you have all of that in ONE person..how awesome is that!
- Divorce Will Leave You Broke And Broken- If you think being single is costly, try getting a divorce. Via Divorce Statistics: Divorce is a big business in the United States. It is in fact a $28 billion-a-year industry with an average cost of about $20,000. So, when it comes to file the petition, it is important to know that the whole process can be costly. The overall cost of getting divorced in the United States differ from state to state. However, the estimated cost ranges from between $10,000 and $20,000, with an average of $15,000. Then you need to factor in the emotional toll it takes on you. In the end it really is cheaper to keep her
- They Know You..The REAL You- This is probably my favorite reason for getting and staying married. When your going on dates you are putting your best you forward. Your hair is always done, your house is spotless, your car is free of clutter. You laugh and never have a bad day. This is even true within the first 6-12 months. When you have settled into a marriage you can relax a little bit. You can have an off day(but not too many) and know your spouse will love you even when the house isn’t perfect and you’re in sweats and a wife beater. This also means emotionally you don’t have to hide your fears or past pains from your partner. You can be emotionally honest and let go of some barriers in your life and let you be you.
- You And Me vs. the World- When you are down and out with no one to turn to, you always have your spouse to be in your corner. When you are married you have someone else there with you to go through life’s ups and downs. When you have had a hard day,week,month or even a decade you have someone who knows exactly what you are going through because they have been going through it with you, and they care enough to stay around.
- Consistent Sex- Most singles will agree that they don’t get laid as much as they would like. While movies and tv will have you think that every friday night singles are getting it on yet that is so not the case for most of us. When you are married you have sex more. Even if you have sex only 2 times a week for the rest of your marriage you are still having more sex than a person who isn’t married. Remember that the next time you are complaining about your married sex life.
Whether you decide to tie the knot or to stay solo is purely up to you. You must factor in what lifestyle and future you envision for yourself. In this case there isn’t a right or wrong choice. It’s all on you. So if your married enjoy the ring and the consistent sex!May32012Married Men Love Me-The Single Life
Written by nikkitrue in The Single Life at 12:24 pm
SINGLE GIRL PROBLEMS!!!!! MARRIED MEN LOVE ME. Yep you read that right. Not just married men either. Men who are in committed relationships fancy me too. I have found other single ladies have this same dilemma themselves. Not a day goes by I don’t find a message or email from a married man asking to be my friend, while also describing what he wants to do to my lady parts. It’s an epidemic that I feel should be addresses. The Married Man(or Committed Man) and The Single Woman should never mix, yet they seem to come in contact more than not.
The Married Man looks at the single woman as a key to freedom. Most people get married with rose-colored glasses on thinking that they will finally be happy. Some get married hoping to find religious favor and a cure from cheating. Others get married because of father time ticking at their youth. Then they realize somewhere around 5 to 7 years into it that they really didn’t want this life. A married or committed man fantasizes the single life. The parties, the freedom, THE SEX! Somewhere along those daydreams they forget that they really didn’t have all of these things even when they were single.
I personally am not into sharing. If you are married or committed you are no longer a candidate in my eyes. I do believe in that old saying “the way you got him will be the way you lose him”. Plus if he will cheat on his wife why wouldn’t he cheat on me? What married men fail to see is that if they put the same energy that they put into wanting a single woman into their marriage they wouldn’t need to look outside their jouse for what they are missing. Married and committed men please remember your vows. It’s hard enough for us single ladies without having you pissing us off by hitting on us and having no shame in your cheating ways.
Apr152012Have A Sex Or Relationship Question? Ask Nikki True
Written by nikkitrue in Ask Nikki True at 7:17 pm
Do you have a sex question that your too shy to ask anyone else? Problems in your relationship and you don’t know what to do? No question or topic is to taboo for me to handle! I give a non judgemental, sex positive view on love and sex! Send all your questions to asknikkitrue@nikkitrue.com and you may have your question featured on Nikkitrue.com ♥
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Apr102012Dear Future Husband-The Single Life
Written by nikkitrue in The Single Life at 4:37 pm
Dear future loving,great,sexy,sweet,creative,goal driven,awesome, hell of a man husband,
I hope you’re doing well. Out in the world getting your life in order. I’m doing the same. the difference is before when I used to cry wondering why you weren’t around,thinking every guy could be you, I now no longer make my search for you my quest to be complete. That’s not to say I don’t want you around but now I understand that you will be an added bonus and not the thing that makes or breaks me. My life will go on rather I find you by the time I’m thirty like I “planned” or If I even find you. I no longer will run to the first man who says he loves me but be more grounded in who I am so only you will be able to approach me. I bet you feel the same way too. I’m finally enjoying life..my life..and the kick ass people I’m meeting and folks who have been here all along. I think my look for one soul mate blinded my view of the soul mates I have in family,friends,and of course God. I won’t fill my time with those who will only be a void filler for the sake of not being lonely but I’m also not sitting at home counting down your arrival. I have films to do, stories to write,and a legacy to create. I’m out here getting it! I know you are just as busy as me. So if our paths don’t cross immediately I’ll understand we both have things to take care of. But know when we meet we will be ready for each other
so right now I’ll enjoy being me and you enjoy being you. When we do finally become one we will be unbreakable in our bond,bringing no baggage,insecurities, and drama to each others lives. We will be sure in who we are and its all because we know that we are a movement by ourselves yet a force when we are together. I love youYour future sexy,funny,big boobied,swagtastic,ambitious, awesome hell of a woman Wife
Nov12011You Don’t Want A Marriage, You Want A Wedding! The Kim Kardashian Syndrome
Written by nikkitrue in Relationships,Sex News,Sorry I have to ask?,When whoring for publicity goes wrong at 12:10 pm
Little girls are taught through fairy tales and fables what love is supposed to be. We are told that a prince charming will come riding on a white horse, take us away from being held captive by an evil witch or warlock, and whisk us into a happily ever after. So no wonder many girls grow into women with these same ideas. Women want the tall, dark,and handsome sensitive bad boy with a heart of gold to realize that he can’t live without you,change his bad boy ways, buy you the 5 carat diamond and give you the royal wedding treatment. Many women are working their ass off to get a ring and wedding that they forget what once the wedding is over…they have to be MARRIED!
Kim Kardashian filed for divorce from her husband Kris Humphries after 72 days of marriage. The couple wed in a lavish HUGE celebrity filled wedding on August 20. The wedding was straight out of a Disney movie. The budget was straight out of an US debt report. The wedding cost over 10 million dollars at a time when most people (nikki included) are trying to make a dollar out of 15 cent. Most if not all of the cost was taken care of by advertisers cashing in on the kardashian craze. Now 72 days later she will be heading back down an aisle…a courtroom aisle as she kicks Kris to the single again curb.
Is this what marriage is? People protest over same-sex couples getting hitched, yet we can let a reality TV star put on a spectacle of a show, claim its all for love, and we applaud that? In her official statement she claims it didn’t turn out the way she hoped. She has been married before so what where you expecting? I believe she wanted the wedding. Kim Kardashian wanted to show the world..and reggie bush..that she could get the dream that she so wanted. She has the smell of desperation all over her when it comes to marriage. She needs that validation that she is a good woman who any man should worship. Especially after having a sex tape seen by thousands, you want to gain some level of womanly respect back. And nothing says I’m a respectful woman like being a wife.(insert sarcasm) She planned this big ass wedding thinking this man will finally validate her. She wanted the wedding day high to last for the duration of the marriage. Sorry but to keep that feeling your going to have to get married everyday. Once the guest leave, and the open bar is gone its you and your spouse. Two individuals making a life together. Once you are married it’s no longer about you and your show, your business, and your family. It’s about only you two.I don’t see her being a selfless woman. There’s nothing wrong with being a little selfish when you are single, but in marriage that word has no place.
There are so many women who suffer from Kim Kardashian Syndrome. They put more effort in the guest list and seating chart than they do in the actual relationship. They love the “look at me” value of a wedding. They want to feel like a princess even if for a day. The reality is you should be more excited about having this man be your rock instead of the rock he puts on your finger. Be ecstatic about the committment you two are making. Take your vows seriously whether you say them in front of celebrities or a judge in a chamber. Marriage is much more than a wedding. Marriage is a firm committment to love, honor,and obey the person who makes your life better by being alive. It shouldn’t matter how much you spend or the color of the flowers. What matters is looking forward to a lifetime of joy and yes pain with your partner. Marriage is the hardest thing you will ever want to do. Marriage isn’t 72 days nor 100 years. True marriage, from a place of unconditional love is forever. That type of love is priceless.
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- Gay Men Acting Like Straight Women Or Straight Women Acting Like Gay Men?
- The Myth Of The Multiple Orgasm From A Man’s Point of View
- Straight, Gay,Or Kappa…Marriage Is For Everyone
- 5 Sexiest Black Men In Hollywood…Other Than Lance,Denzel,Or Michael
- Self Hate Keeps Many Women From Finding Love In The Dating Game
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- I Love Wiz Khalifa And Amber Rose As A Couple
- Seriously Sensual Presents: Nikki True Live- Single Sexy Brutha Jerry Dawson
- Fetish Of The Month- Stigmatophilia (Tattoos And Piercings)
- Bitch Bad, Woman Good? Should Lupe Fiasco Comment On Womanhood?
- Does A Man With Multiple Baby Mothers Equal Undateable?
