A woman knows what a woman wants? In some instances I have been told that is the case. Now that’s not to say that a man can’t be just as in tune with a woman’s body as a woman would be. Yet there are some men who are stuck in their ways and that includes giving their ladies Ms. Kitty a lick. When we say eat it we don’t mean that literally. I have had some excellent oral stories( lawd the ones who eat you out for hours and NEVER come up for air) and then I have those oral stories that will make you go WTF(chewing..really guy). So to save some of you fellas from being embarrassed..or having your girl look for a more feminine touch I wanted to give you some tricks of the pussy eating trade that lesbians use to please their ladies ( and a couple I recommend) to give the best lady licker a run for her money.

FOREPLAY….NOT A MYTH- Men are usually ready for head at all given times. Church..ready for head! Funerals..ready for head! I’m even sure during the rapture there will be a man fighting the battle of heaven and hell yet ready to get some head! Women though are not as ready. We are turned on by the build-up..hence foreplay. We are sensory creatures. At least three of the 5 senses should be alert and stimulated before getting down to business. (Touch) her gently, massage her body with scented oils(smell), look into her eyes passionately(sight), whisper how bad you want to taste her (sound), lick(taste) her hot spots(nape of neck, ear lobe, outline her upper lips with your tongue) before going directly to her honey pot.

The Art Of The KISS- Kissing is one of the most intimate acts of sex. Women tend to understand that, men not so much. When performing oral sex on a woman never neglect to kiss her pussy. Soft little pecks on her labia majora (look to diagram to reference) and labia minora (again check the diagram) will get her juices flowing like you never would expect. Also kiss her inner thighs and belly for added enjoyment. To bring her clit out also kiss the hood and pull on it a little with your lips(no biting)!

How To Lick The Clit- Women understand the power of the clit. It may be small..but its a big factor when it comes to oral sex. Some men tend to forget that and give it two licks and then start shoving fingers inside you…major turn off. Make her clit happy and the rest is a piece of cake. One thing I think every man should know how to do is the tongue alphabet.

lick the shape of every letter in the alphabet starting with A and going all the way to Z and back again.  Make them wide from time to time to cover the whole genital area, and make them small at other times, centering on the clitoris itself. If you do it right she will come by the time you get to the letter Q. I suggest practicing this skill while board and watching TV. Another move that’s bound to make her reach new heights is “The Sucker”. Once her clit is at full arousal, draw it in with your lips and apply slight pressure at first in a sucking form. As she becomes wetter(trust she will) suck harder on her clit. With your lips wrapped around her button move your head up and down like your saying yes but continue sucking. She will also be saying YES YES in no time with these techniques.

Give Her The Finger(s)- Men get a one up on lesbians because they come with a penis for penetration, yet the lesbian has ten ways to penetrate and provide maximum pleasure. When giving oral don’t let your fingers go to waste. Use them to give her an added bonus to along with your mouth. One way is while licking her clit tickle her opening without fully going inside. Dip your finger in her wetness and rub it around her lips and thighs. Now when you do want to insert remember the spot..G SPOT!!! What is the G Spot you ask:

It is the bean-shaped, spongy tissue of the paraurethral gland, which is analogous to the male prostate. The actual area is only about the size of a quarter, but it feels rougher to the touch than the surrounding tissue. Because the G-spot is composed of erectile tissue, it swells up when blood rushes to it — especially if you learn how to master the woman’s G-spot effectively.

It is located about one to two inches back from the vaginal opening inside the front vaginal wall. The “front” wall is the wall of the vagina on the same side as her belly button.

Once you feel you have found it rub it back and forth in a “come here” type motion. I say give it about 3 rubs and she will be speechless. One technique that I personally like is to have my pussy spanked. When you get her clit erect slightly tap it a few times and apply a little pressure to it with your thumb. Repeat a few time and watch her beg for more. Also using your fingers gives your mouth and tongue a break so your jaw doesn’t get a cramp(yes it happens) but doesn’t stop the pleasure.

Most importantly remember it’s for her so ask her what she likes. Every woman is different so tailor your techniques and style to the woman who you are dealing with. Also remember the clit is VERY sensitive so teeth or any other aggressive behavior is frowned upon. We want to leave with our pussies in the same condition that we came in. And more than anything HAVE FUN! Treat her pussy as your  playground and your tongue is on recess! Who needs the L Word! When you follow Nikki’s advice it will be all about The Man Show!