- Sep122012
Seriously Sensual Presents: Nikki True Live- Single Sexy Brutha Jerry Dawson
Written by nikkitrue in Seriously Sensual Presents Nikki True Live at 3:52 pm
Listen to internet radio with Seriously Sensual on Blog Talk RadioI had the pleasure of dabbling into my OTHER love which is match making this past sunday on Nikki True Live. I interviewed Jerry Dawson, an aspiring accountant from Oklahoma City with not only brains but body, character, and sex appeal to match. He was a perfect pick for my Single Sexy Brutha. The interview was nothing less than entertaining. Click play and get to know my Single Sexy Brutha Jerry Dawson.
Aug232012Does A Man With Multiple Baby Mothers Equal Undateable?
Written by nikkitrue in Sorry I have to ask? at 10:00 am
Mama’s baby, daddy’s too many? Does a man with multiple baby mothers make him a bad relationship choice? It’s no secret that the single mother rate is high so that means that there are single men with children in the dating pool. Some more than others. I notice a double standard in my years of dating. I find that a man will question the decision-making skills of a woman with more than 2 children. Men look at a woman with multiple kids as used goods or just a baby momma and nothing more. Women on the other hand seem to turn a blind eye to a man with not only multiple children, but multiple baby mothers.
When we start to date someone we usually only prepare for the good times and forever, not the bad times and temporary. When you only want the good in a relationship you will be more than likely to leave when things get bad or even mediocre. What does this have to do this multiple baby mothers? When you get in a relationship many start to plan a life together. A life that will include kids. So you have a child and all of a sudden you no longer feel the love for your partner. You break up but now you have a child from that relationship. Some years go by and you find yourself in love again and planning a future with your new-found soul mate, or so you think. She get’s pregnant and then you realize this isn’t going to work, but you now have another child from another failed relationship. You see how things can turn from one to many?
What if you are just a man who doesn’t like using condoms? You go from being single to now having 3 different women to answer to when it comes to how you are supporting your children. Now let’s say you have learned your lesson and you are ready to find a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. Should women be wary of you because not only would she be entering a relationship with you and your children but in a way also with your baby mothers. Here is why: when his kids are in your care you will be responsible for them. if anything goes wrong guess who is going to be your face? That child’s mother who may not like you just for the simple fact you got something she couldn’t get…a commitment from her child’s father. Maybe you are great with kids. that may not be enough to avoid baby momma drama. Now multiply that by however many baby mothers he may have and that can be a headache.
What if he is taking care of all of his kids, the mothers of his children all get along, and he is ready to commit to you? Do you pass on him because of some past situations? I would say it depends on his character and the way he is not only handling his situation but how he is dealing with you within that situation. Yes you should consider his past decisions but understand your not in love with his past but his present and that is what you look at. Do we all make some not so smart decisions in life and love of course. It’s how he is making his present work and his future better that matters.
Aug22012Act Like A Wife, Think Like A Mistress
Written by nikkitrue in Relationships at 8:00 pm
I already knew the title act like a wife, think like a mistress would piss some folks off but please read before you send me an angry email. The battle of the wife and the mistress has been one fought for centuries. We have come to know the mistress as a woman with no regard to anyone’s feelings or any morals. She waits to find unsuspecting husbands who are weak to her sexual advances. She then attacks him with her sweet smile and sexy style leaving him helpless yet wanting more. The wife, innocent and nieve , never sees it coming. Ok maybe that was a way over the top description but that what most people think a mistress is. What may shock you is that a wife can actually learn a few things from a mistress and a mistress should know some things about a wife.
I asked a few men who were brave enough to admit of their affairs what made them want to find another woman and the answers seem to be the same. They wanted a woman to admire them and make them feel needed. They liked the fact that she would notice the little things that he would do. A mistress has a way of playing up the fact that she loves the man he is now, instead of the man he used to be. The wife on the other hand has the memories of a better man than what he is today and longs to have him back. A man wants someone to accept him at all stages of his life. His past,present,and his future. The mistress has the advantage of getting to play up on loving all his good…but she also has a disadvantage.
The wife has put in the time,effort,and sweat to be able to hold such a coveted title. She knows him inside and out, something the mistress doesn’t have. The wife will always come first whether the husband wants to admit it. The wife takes care of him in a way the mistress cannot. She has put in more time nurturing him and not only that she has his kids. He can take the wife around friends and family and not worry about if she is going to be inappropriate or embarrass him. Not to say a mistress can’t carry herself like a wife…but in most cases she is only for a good time and not for all the time. The mistress is there to stroke his ego. The wife is there to help carry some of the load of having a family. The mistress is who you complain to. The wife is who you tell your secrets to. The mistress offers fantasy while the wife is reality. So how can you act like a wife, think like a mistress?
You need to make your home a comfort from the storm of life. The mistress doesn’t yell at him for not taking out the trash or remind him of bills that he already knows that are due. Be his biggest cheerleader. He should be able to know that no matter how small the accomplishment make sure to acknowledge it and not follow it up with something he is not doing. It’s funny on a sitcom to do that but not in real life. The mistress knows to make the man feel good at all times. Keep yourself looking nice. That doesn’t mean you have to be a certain “type” since he fell in love with you. Yet that doesn’t give you an excuse to buy all things with drawstring and elastic waistbands. The mistress always looks her best when she is with her man no matter what is going on in her personal life. You are not his warden nor school teacher so correcting your husband and nagging him is definitely a no! The mistress is great at making each moment they are together sweet and drama free. Take these tips and watch your marriage do a 180. You CAN be everything he needs!
Become your husband’s mistress and give one less “other woman” a fighting chance to attack your relationship.
Jun252012Inside The NightStand Review-Mini Jumpin Gyrator Mini-Bump
Written by nikkitrue in Nikki True Files at 4:22 pm
Ever wondered why night stands are a must in a bedroom? Well it’s not just for your socks! It’s a great place to keep your sexy toy stash! Many people ask me what toys, clothes,and other fun delights should they have tucked away in their nightstand to make for a fun sex life. The series Inside The Night-Stand Drawer will be giving you a review on the best items to add to your sexual menu with the help of the good people at California Exotic Novelties
If you like your sex toys, quiet,simple and gets the job done then you will love the Mini Jumpin Gyrator Mini-bump. No multiple buttons to figure out which to me is a plus. The Mini bump has one button that gives you three speeds and a satin finish skin that feels great to the touch. The best part about this toy is that it is the quietest toy that I own. I can literally use this anywhere and no one knows. This toy is great for those with roommates or moms who need a little pick me up during kids nap times. It gives you just as much vibration without all the sound. You can also add this to your bath time routine since this toy is water proof. I give this toy 3.5 out of 5 “Oh Faces”. Now if you want to experience what I did then go over to http://www.calexotics.com and purchase your very own..and tell em Nikki true sent you
May32012Married Men Love Me-The Single Life
Written by nikkitrue in The Single Life at 12:24 pm
SINGLE GIRL PROBLEMS!!!!! MARRIED MEN LOVE ME. Yep you read that right. Not just married men either. Men who are in committed relationships fancy me too. I have found other single ladies have this same dilemma themselves. Not a day goes by I don’t find a message or email from a married man asking to be my friend, while also describing what he wants to do to my lady parts. It’s an epidemic that I feel should be addresses. The Married Man(or Committed Man) and The Single Woman should never mix, yet they seem to come in contact more than not.
The Married Man looks at the single woman as a key to freedom. Most people get married with rose-colored glasses on thinking that they will finally be happy. Some get married hoping to find religious favor and a cure from cheating. Others get married because of father time ticking at their youth. Then they realize somewhere around 5 to 7 years into it that they really didn’t want this life. A married or committed man fantasizes the single life. The parties, the freedom, THE SEX! Somewhere along those daydreams they forget that they really didn’t have all of these things even when they were single.
I personally am not into sharing. If you are married or committed you are no longer a candidate in my eyes. I do believe in that old saying “the way you got him will be the way you lose him”. Plus if he will cheat on his wife why wouldn’t he cheat on me? What married men fail to see is that if they put the same energy that they put into wanting a single woman into their marriage they wouldn’t need to look outside their jouse for what they are missing. Married and committed men please remember your vows. It’s hard enough for us single ladies without having you pissing us off by hitting on us and having no shame in your cheating ways.
Apr252012Inside The Night-Stand Review :Silicone Flexi Risque
Written by nikkitrue in Inside The Night-Stand Sex Toy Review at 6:42 pm
Ever wondered why night stands are a must in a bedroom? Well it’s not just for your socks! It’s a great place to keep your sexy toy stash! Many people ask me what toys, clothes,and other fun delights should they have tucked away in their nightstand to make for a fun sex life. The series Inside The Night-Stand Drawer will be giving you a review on the best items to add to your sexual menu with the help of the good people at California Exotic Novelties.
I call this sweet little toy my purple rain due to how wet I get when I use it. The Flexi Risque comes with a lot of pleasure. Not only do you get 10 vibrations, pulsations, and escalation, you also get a penetration friendly shaft that slides in smoothly. I loved the soft skin and the very fun color. I am very feminine and this toy gives me style with a whole lot of substance. The size of the ripples increase as you get closer to the base giving you a great sensation against your walls. The Flexi Risque soon became one of my top picks because I could bend and move and it would bend and move with me. I even put it flat on the floor and sat directly on it( do not try if your new to sex toys or not on a completely flat surface). If you are an anal pro the Risque is great for a backdoor romp or for a double penetration. Add some lube to this satin toy and you won’t have a hard anal insertion. I give this toy4 out of 5 “Oh Faces”. Now if you want to experience what I did then go over to http://www.calexotics.com and purchase your very own..and tell em Nikki true sent you
Apr152012Have A Sex Or Relationship Question? Ask Nikki True
Written by nikkitrue in Ask Nikki True at 7:17 pm
Do you have a sex question that your too shy to ask anyone else? Problems in your relationship and you don’t know what to do? No question or topic is to taboo for me to handle! I give a non judgemental, sex positive view on love and sex! Send all your questions to asknikkitrue@nikkitrue.com and you may have your question featured on Nikkitrue.com ♥
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Kinky Kisses-Nikki True
Apr22012Fetish Of The Month- Wet & Messy or Sploshing
Written by nikkitrue in Fetish Of The Month at 1:55 pm
Sexual fetishism, or erotic fetishism, is the sexual arousal a person receives from a physical object, or from a specific situation. The object or situation of interest is called the fetish, the person a fetishist who has a fetish for that object/situation.
We all have something sexual that turns us on. But deep down in the freaky pits of our sexuality we have that something extra on our sexual menu. Everyone has a fetish. Some are mild and some are what the hell, but each one makes for an interesting sex life.
I came across WAM or Sploshing on an episode of Real Sex, the HBO show that came on in the mid-to late 90′s. In my opinion it’s like taking food and sex to a whole other level. I am used to using whip cream and strawberries but not whip cream,strawberries,ice cream,and pies and dumping them all over my body. I did a little digging and found out the fetish term came from England by Bill Shipton who is the creator of “Sploshing Magazine”. http://www.maximumawesome.com/ defines Sploshing as “Sploshers enjoy having various substances poured over them and thrown at them, they enjoy sitting on cakes, in bowls of pudding, in gelatin, and they love the cream pie in the face as much as any aficionado of slapstick comedy. Some sploshers have sex during and after the mess-making, while others, the sexual release is found through the very act of sploshing and no further activity is required.”
As a black woman I don’t like getting my hair wet let alone having cake put in it, yet the thought of rolling around in jello does seem like fun! I will try this fetish one day. I will make sure I wear a head wrap and do it in someone else’s house. No way in hell am I cleaning up that sploshing mess.
Mar1201210 Reasons Why I Am Pro-Masturbation
Written by nikkitrue in Sex Advice at 4:55 pm
Masturbation gets a bad name in my opinion. Some say its a sin while others say it’s a gateway to other malicious sexual behavior. I believe masturbation should be taught as an alternative to teenage sex. It’s a healthy way to get to know your body and sexual desires without participating in any risky sexual acts. Everyone has done it,will do it,or is doing it now. If I wasn’t typing this blog I’d be doing it. Masturbation is nothing to be ashamed about. If your still not convinced that solo love is good for you let me give you a few reasons why sex can wait, masturbate!
1.Its Sex With The Most Beatifulest Thing In This World…YOU- Self love not only deals with the mental, it also has a lot to do with the physical. If you don’t find yourself sexy why in the hell should anyone else? I will admit I get turned on when I see myself naked in the mirror. Masturbation gives you a chance to admire your sexy.
2.Its The True Definition Of No Strings Attached Sex- You don’t have to wonder if you made a mistake by giving in to soon. You don’t have to call in a couple of days. You don’t have to do anything that would normally have to do with a friend with benefit.
3.You Control How Long Or Short The Solo Session Lasts You have somewhere you need to be in 30 minutes? Masturbation is perfect. Got the house all to yourself for the night? Masturbation is great for that too! You can give yourself a marathon or a quickie and not have anyone complaining about how long or short the sex is!
4.No Pillow Talk Needed You know that awkward moment when you are done having sex with someone and really don’t want to talk but you feel obligated to strike up a conversation? With masturbation it’s only you. So know need for cuddling and after sex talk unless you like to talk to yourself.
5.Toys Toys Toys- Masturbation let’s you be a kid again..in an adult way. Vibrators, Masturbators, and Dildos oh my!
6.When Your In The Mood You Don’t Have To Wait For Someone Else To Be In The Mood Too- Tired of hearing I have a headache or my Flow-Rida(my name for period) is getting low? Masturbation says screw that! You don’t have to wait for someone to give you the green light to make love.
7.You Can’t Get Pregnant- Masturbation will keep you from playing Fantasia’s song ”BabyMomma” or B-Rock and the Biz “That’s Just My BabyDaddy”. Masturbation keeps you from being a Maury guest. If masturbation could get you pregnant I would have two reality TV shows “11 And Pregnant” and “500 kids and counting”
8. No STD’s- You don’t have to buy a “Sorry I gave you herpes” Hallmark card. Solo love keeps you from getting infected with an unwanted STD. Even if you have a STD currently you won’t run the risk of infecting others.
9.You Can Sleep With George Clonney, Drake or Rihanna..In Your Masturbation fantasies You want to know how many times Wale and I have done the beat it up tango?? Countless times (in my mind). Masturbation let’s you have a sexy party with your favorite celebrity or that hot neighbor you have been crushing on. You can be sexually creative while getting off. You can have a threesome with Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie while Jennfier Aniston is naked and squirting from the visual excitement!
10.Save’s You Money From Buying Dinners, Fancy Date Clothes, And Condoms masturbation is recession friendly. No need to spend a weeks pay on trying to impress someone who may or may not have sex with you. Even if you wine and dine yourself you save money paying for one dinner and you are guaranteed an orgasm at the end of the night.
Now that you know your not a freak for wanting to touch yourself…LOG OFF AND GO TOUCH YOURSELF!! I promise you no kittens will die because of it.
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Jan252012Inside The Night-Stand Review-Petite L’Amour™ Premium Massagers – Petite Indulgence
Written by nikkitrue in Inside The Night-Stand Sex Toy Review at 1:00 pm
Ever wondered why night stands are a must in a bedroom? Well it’s not just for your socks! It’s a great place to keep your sexy toy stash! Many people ask me what toys, clothes,and other fun delights should they have tucked away in their nightstand to make for a fun sex life. The series Inside The Night-Stand Drawer will be giving you a review on the best items to add to your sexual menu with the help of the good people at California Exotic Novelties.
If your new to sex toys this is perfect for a beginner. The Petite Indulgence comes in 3 fun colors and is so small it can fit directly into your palm. You don’t have to worry about multiple buttons and long cords with this one. It has one LED button that you hold down to increase to your desired speed which simplifies your sexual enjoyment. What will get you going is the feel of this vibe. It’s so smooth to the touch! Your skin will tingle from the satin like covering. The thing that made me smile, this toy is quiet and discreet. No loud buzzing sounds that can be heard and give away your sexy little secret. I turned this toy all the way up and was pleasantly surprised at how quiet it vibrated. Although you don’t hear it, you will definitely feel it. This vibe is cute,powerful,and great for those who want to start off building their toy collection. I even recommend taking this toy with you and use it on the go. it’s size and minimal sound makes it perfect to use anywhere you feel the need. I give this toy 4 out of 5 “Oh Faces”. Now if you want to experience what I did then go over to http://www.calexotics.com and purchase your very own..and tell em Nikki True sent you
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- Self Hate Keeps Many Women From Finding Love In The Dating Game
- I Love Wiz Khalifa And Amber Rose As A Couple
- Seriously Sensual Presents: Nikki True Live- Single Sexy Brutha Jerry Dawson
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