Ever wondered why night stands are a must in a bedroom? Well it’s not just for your socks! It’s a great place to keep your sexy toy stash! Many people ask me what toys, clothes,and other fun delights should they have tucked away in their nightstand to make for a fun sex life. The series Inside The Night-Stand Drawer will be giving you a review on the best items to add to your sexual menu with the help of the good people at California Exotic Novelties.
I call this sweet little toy my purple rain due to how wet I get when I use it. The Flexi Risque comes with a lot of pleasure. Not only do you get 10 vibrations, pulsations, and escalation, you also get a penetration friendly shaft that slides in smoothly. I loved the soft skin and the very fun color. I am very feminine and this toy gives me style with a whole lot of substance. The size of the ripples increase as you get closer to the base giving you a great sensation against your walls. The Flexi Risque soon became one of my top picks because I could bend and move and it would bend and move with me. I even put it flat on the floor and sat directly on it( do not try if your new to sex toys or not on a completely flat surface). If you are an anal pro the Risque is great for a backdoor romp or for a double penetration. Add some lube to this satin toy and you won’t have a hard anal insertion. I give this toy4 out of 5 “Oh Faces”. Now if you want to experience what I did then go over to http://www.calexotics.com and purchase your very own..and tell em Nikki true sent you
Ever wondered why night stands are a must in a bedroom? Well it’s not just for your socks! It’s a great place to keep your sexy toy stash! Many people ask me what toys, clothes,and other fun delights should they have tucked away in their nightstand to make for a fun sex life. The series Inside The Night-Stand Drawer will be giving you a review on the best items to add to your sexual menu with the help of the good people at California Exotic Novelties
If your tired of the regular furry handcuffs this is a great alternative. The Tantric Binding Love Universal Cuffs are made from Polyester (ribbon) 65% Polyester, 35% Rubber (cuffs) Nickel-Free Alloy (ring). These are high quality cuffs that are tight yet comfortable. You pull the straps in to get a grip on your lovers wrist. I even used them on my ankles and it worked so you get more versatility for your money. I tend to lose things such as the small keys that come with some handcuffs, but with the Love Cuffs that is a worry no more. I also enjoy the fact that they are smooth around your wrist which keeps you from getting marks or lines from being too tight and doesn’t require a lot of pulling and removing like sex tapes and wraps. The Love Cuffs are sexy and affordable enough that you can buy the other accessories in the Tantric Brand such as the Satin Pasties, Corset with Wrist Cuffs, Hog Tie and much more. I give this piece 5 out of 5 “Oh Faces”. Now if you want to experience what I did then go over to http://www.calexotics.com and purchase your very own..and tell em Nikki True sent you
Masturbation gets a bad name in my opinion. Some say its a sin while others say it’s a gateway to other malicious sexual behavior. I believe masturbation should be taught as an alternative to teenage sex. It’s a healthy way to get to know your body and sexual desires without participating in any risky sexual acts. Everyone has done it,will do it,or is doing it now. If I wasn’t typing this blog I’d be doing it. Masturbation is nothing to be ashamed about. If your still not convinced that solo love is good for you let me give you a few reasons why sex can wait, masturbate!
1.Its Sex With The Most Beatifulest Thing In This World…YOU- Self love not only deals with the mental, it also has a lot to do with the physical. If you don’t find yourself sexy why in the hell should anyone else? I will admit I get turned on when I see myself naked in the mirror. Masturbation gives you a chance to admire your sexy.
2.Its The True Definition Of No Strings Attached Sex- You don’t have to wonder if you made a mistake by giving in to soon. You don’t have to call in a couple of days. You don’t have to do anything that would normally have to do with a friend with benefit.
3.You Control How Long Or Short The Solo Session Lasts You have somewhere you need to be in 30 minutes? Masturbation is perfect. Got the house all to yourself for the night? Masturbation is great for that too! You can give yourself a marathon or a quickie and not have anyone complaining about how long or short the sex is!
4.No Pillow Talk Needed You know that awkward moment when you are done having sex with someone and really don’t want to talk but you feel obligated to strike up a conversation? With masturbation it’s only you. So know need for cuddling and after sex talk unless you like to talk to yourself.
5.Toys Toys Toys- Masturbation let’s you be a kid again..in an adult way. Vibrators, Masturbators, and Dildos oh my!
6.When Your In The Mood You Don’t Have To Wait For Someone Else To Be In The Mood Too- Tired of hearing I have a headache or my Flow-Rida(my name for period) is getting low? Masturbation says screw that! You don’t have to wait for someone to give you the green light to make love.
7.You Can’t Get Pregnant- Masturbation will keep you from playing Fantasia’s song ”BabyMomma” or B-Rock and the Biz “That’s Just My BabyDaddy”. Masturbation keeps you from being a Maury guest. If masturbation could get you pregnant I would have two reality TV shows “11 And Pregnant” and “500 kids and counting”
8. No STD’s- You don’t have to buy a “Sorry I gave you herpes” Hallmark card. Solo love keeps you from getting infected with an unwanted STD. Even if you have a STD currently you won’t run the risk of infecting others.
9.You Can Sleep With George Clonney, Drake or Rihanna..In Your Masturbation fantasies You want to know how many times Wale and I have done the beat it up tango?? Countless times (in my mind). Masturbation let’s you have a sexy party with your favorite celebrity or that hot neighbor you have been crushing on. You can be sexually creative while getting off. You can have a threesome with Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie while Jennfier Aniston is naked and squirting from the visual excitement!
10.Save’s You Money From Buying Dinners, Fancy Date Clothes, And Condoms masturbation is recession friendly. No need to spend a weeks pay on trying to impress someone who may or may not have sex with you. Even if you wine and dine yourself you save money paying for one dinner and you are guaranteed an orgasm at the end of the night.
Now that you know your not a freak for wanting to touch yourself…LOG OFF AND GO TOUCH YOURSELF!! I promise you no kittens will die because of it.
We all know the great fun side of sex. The pleasure from feeling an orgasm, the sweet taste of oral sex. But how many of you would know what herpes looks like? What about penis discharge or the effects of HIV on the body? You may have heard about STD/STI’s but do you actually know the symptoms that come with them? Good thing you have me to give you a crash course in what to know and what to look for. I normally bring you the good side of sex, now here is the ugly and very real side of sex! To find out more information go to http://www.cdc.gov/std/ and stay informed.
Most genital herpes is caused by HSV-2. Most individuals have no or only minimal signs or symptoms from HSV-1 or HSV-2 infection. When signs do occur, they typically appear as one or more blisters on or around the genitals or rectum. The blisters break, leaving tender ulcers (sores) that may take two to four weeks to heal the first time they occur. Other symtoms include crop of sores, flu-like symptoms, including fever and swollen glands. At least 45 million Americans age 12 and older have genital herpes. There are two types of herpes simplex virus: HSV-1 and HSV-2. HSV-1 is what fever blisters and cold sores are and HSV-2 is genital. There is no known cure for herpes.
Infection caused by a kind of bacteria that is passed during sexual contact. It can infect the penis, vagina, cervix, anus, urethra, or throat. Symptoms usually appear 2 to 7 days after a person has been exposed to gonorrhea. Symptoms include yellow-white like discharge, burning when urinating, and in females between period bleeding.Gonorrhea is treated with antibiotics. Early treatment is recommended.
Trichomoniasis is caused by a protozoan parasite called Trichomonas vaginalis and is a cause of vaginal infections in women and urethral infections in men. Trichomoniasis is an STD that affects approximately 5 million people in the US every year. Trichomoniasis is one of the most common, curable causes of vaginal infections in women. Symptoms include Genital itching and/or burning,Vaginal or vulval redness, pain during sex, abdominal pain. Men may experience tingling inside the penis, discharge from the penis, pain during peeing. Antibiotic treatment is used to cure you of symptoms if left untreated you become a higer risk for contracting HIV.
caused by bacteria (germ). It progresses in stages. Syphilis is easy to cure in its early stages. But without treatment, it can hurt your body’s organs, leading to severe illness and even death. Syphilis occurs in 3 stages
Infections due to chlamydia are the most common bacterial (STDs) in the U.S. today, with an estimated 4 million new cases occurring each year. Chlamydial infections are caused by a bacterium, Chlamydia trachomatis, and are transmitted during vaginal, oral or anal sexual contact with an infected partner.Women report vaginal discharge, vaginal bleeding between periods, abdominal pain that is sometimes accompanied by fever and nausea, and burning or pain during urination. Men with the infection report burning or pain during urination and a discharge from the penis.About three-quarters of infected women and about half of infected men, however, may have no symptoms at all. Infections are treated with a seven-day course of antibiotics.
AIDS (acquired immunodeficiency syndrome) is a disease in which the body’s immune system breaks down and is unable to fight off certain infections, known as “opportunistic infections,” and other illnesses that take advantage of a weakened immune system. When a person is infected with HIV, the virus enters the body and lives and multiplies primarily in the white blood cells. These are the immune cells that normally protect us from disease. The hallmark of HIV infection is the progressive loss of a specific type of immune cell called T-helper or CD4 cells.Most people show no symptoms for 10 to 12 years, and a few for much longer. African-American and Hispanic women, who represent less than one-quarter of U.S. women, represent nearly 80% of AIDS cases reported among American women to date. You cannot tell by looking at someone whether he or she is infected with HIV or has AIDS. There is still no cure.
Approximately 20 million Americans are currently infected with HPV. At least 50 percent of sexually active men and women acquire genital HPV infection at some point in their lives.HPV (Human Papillomavirus) is one of the most common sexually transmitted diseases. There are many different types of HPV and more than 30 are sexually transmitted. Researchers keep track of the different types of HPV by identifying them with numbers, such as 6, 11, 16, and 18. Some types (such as 6 and 11) cause genital warts, others (such as 16 and 18) cause pre-cancerous changes on the cervix that can later lead to cancer of the cervix. In rare cases, the virus can cause other types of cancers to the vulva, vagina, and anus in girls and the anus and penis in guys. At least 1 in every 2 sexually active young women has had a genital HPV infection. Sometimes, certain types of HPV can cause genital warts in males and females.There is no “cure” for HPV infection, although in most women the infection goes away on its own.
Now I’m not trying to scare you into not having sex. I want you to be armed with the knowledge to make healthy and safe sexual choices. Everything has a consequence and sex is no different. You should always have a threesome: YOU, YOUR PARTNER,AND A CONDOM. That is the best way to protect yourself from contracting any of these diseases. The safest way is abstaining from sexual activity. No one else is responsible for your sexual health except you. take the steps to keep it sexy and keep it safe.
Sexual fetishism, or erotic fetishism, is the sexual arousal a person receives from a physical object, or from a specific situation. The object or situation of interest is called the fetish, the person a fetishist who has a fetish for that object/situation.
We all have something sexual that turns us on. But deep down in the freaky pits of our sexuality we have that something extra on our sexual menu. Everyone has a fetish. Some are mild and some are what the hell, but each one makes for an interesting sex life.
Foot Fetish is a sexual interest in the feet or footwear. I have done the foot fetish sex and while it’s not my liking, it does give your hands and jaws a small break. I’ve lubed up the arches of my feet and given a foot job a time or two. My feet are small and corn free so they turn a lot of heads when I’m in a sexy sandal or in my stiletto’s. People with a foot fetish tend to love shoes and stockings too. I love having sex with my shoes on so I don’t mind a man who loves a women in some heels. While I don’t like having my toes sucked, I do enjoy having my lover kiss and rub my feet with oils. I love to have them worshipped and made to feel delicate. If you have someone who loves to play this little piggy with your feet always keep your pedicure appointments to keep your feet in fuckable shape. Some feet lovers like to have your feet fresh out of your shoes after a long day. Don’t forget to rub his balls with your soft soles and keep those toe nails trim so you don’t scratch them. To make things a little kinky let him “finish” on your pretty ten’s. The most important thing is to keep an open mind and a cute nail color. Try it tonight and you may discover your feet are made for much more than walking.
Ever wondered why night stands are a must in a bedroom? Well it’s not just for your socks! It’s a great place to keep your sexy toy stash! Many people ask me what toys, clothes,and other fun delights should they have tucked away in their nightstand to make for a fun sex life. The series Inside The Night-Stand Drawer will be giving you a review on the best items to add to your sexual menu with the help of the good people atCalifornia Exotic Novelties.
If you want a rabbit that gives you more than a buzz and tickle look no further. The Impulse is perfect for the girl who likes variety. This toy gives you 7 different pulsations and vibrations. You will never get bored trying out as many combos as you can make. It also has a hot button function that will randomly select a vibe combo for you. I love that! You don’t know what you’re going to get but trust…you will cum. This rabbit also gives you a rotating G spot curved head powered by triple motors and non jamming rotation beads. The head is silicone and will feel comfortable inside you. If you like a little water play you don’t have to leave this bunny out. The impulse is water proof! Don’t forget the sweet bunny ears give great clitoral stimulation. When I put this rabbit to use I was in love. Not only is it very cute, the head felt so good spinning inside me. I gripped my walls around it and let the vibrating bunny go to work on my clit. What I also love is you can use the hot button and never have to worry about changing settings! If you’re not new to the rabbit family and want to upgrade to something a little more advanced I recommend this toy! If you have never used a rabbit it may be a little overwhelming with all the different functions. I give this toy 3.5 out of 5 “Oh Faces”. Now if you want to experience what I did then go over to http://www.calexotics.com and purchase your very own..and tell em Nikki True sent you
One of my True Loves is having low self esteem in the bedroom.
Ok so here I go..I am the worst when it comes to opening up In the bedroom the guy
that I am with wants me to talk to him during sex and I cannot bring myself to do it I
am afraid I will not know what to say or that he may laugh @ me..He has had way more
experience in the bedroom than I have and that bothers me I can even let him see me
naked I must have all the lights off because I am afraid of what he will think. I am
not a skinny girl and once again I think he will talk about me for the way I look or
laugh at me..so I am coming to you for advice on what I should do..Thank you
Sweet girl let me start by saying I get this type of question a lot from women so you’re not alone. We see images in videos, magazines, and movies and think we should look exactly like a Megan Fox or Buffie The Body! Here is a secret..outside of photoshop those women don’t even look like that so don’t look to them for what sexy is supposed to be! You being body conscience is more about you than it is him. I can give you tricks to make him happy but this problem is deeper than sex. You are suffering from low self-esteem and I’m pretty sure it’s not just in the bedroom. You won’t be able to fully please him until you are pleased with yourself. the sexiest thing anyone male or female can wear is confidence! First thing you must do is beginning to love you and your body!
I want you to stand in front of a mirror by yourself right after you get out of the shower. Look directly into your eyes and start to admire your body. I say admire because what I don’t want you to do is pick yourself apart, but instead look at all the sexiest that comes from you. EVERY WOMAN HAS SOMETHING SEXY ABOUT HER! Find what your sexy is! It could be your curves, maybe it’s your legs and thighs, maybe its your breast but you have something. I believe in positive affirmations or sayings that you repeat to yourself and recommend you say the following one’s to help build your sexual self-esteem
Pick one of these to say while touching and staring at your body each day and you will start to see a change in how you view yourself sexually. You also stated that he has more sexual experience than you do and that intimidates you. Honey the past is just that the past! He is with you now and that’s all that matters. When he is in that bedroom with you only think about you and him. Don’t wonder about if your better or worse than anyone he has already been with because they don’t matter. If he is more experienced ask him to teach you some things that he likes so you can please him to the highest level. Use his knowledge in your favor. There is a reason that he is with you and I’m sure that includes that he finds you sexy. Don’t assume or put your worries on him. He probably want’s to see you naked and have more of you. If talking sexy isn’t your forte then start with some beginners dirty talk. In my blog Talk Dirty To Me I give a crash course on the dirty language of love so check it out. Bottom line is start to relax and not think some much. Its sex not rocket science sweetie. Know that you are beautiful and that when you are in the bed with your man you are a sex goddess who is capable of making him weak with your sex! Start loving yourself outside of the bed and watch the magic truly happen.
One of my True Loves sent me a question about how to do cowgirl on the big D. She is looking for ways to make it pop when she is on top!
So I have read you stories and I love them. Your a great writer. Now I give
head like a pro and can take a dick like no other but I seriously need your
help. I need some pointers on How To Be the BEST On Top. I can ride dick no
problem but I want to Ride dick like a PRO and I feel in that department I
am seriously lacking. Your the first and only person I have asked for
advice. And I am hoping you can help me. Especially how the hell do I turn
around and keep the dick inside? Lol
I get this question a lot and believe me I have done my reasearch (wink). The best advice I can give is to dance. That’s right dance on it! When your riding it’s all about rhythm. Doing cowgirl is about bucking back when he is giving it to you. When your on top of your man think about your favorite song or better yet put on your favorite song and bounce up and down with the beat. here are a list of songs that are perfect to help you “Ride The Rhythm”:
If you’re not good at bouncing then try sitting on his penis as far as you feel comfortable ( I recommend sitting all the way down to the base of his shaft) and do circles with your hips. It’s also important that you and your partner have the same rhythm. If he is bouncing while you are grinding or vise versa it can cause some friction. If he is a bouncer then when he comes up you bear down, when he goes down you lift up slightly but not enough to have him slide out of you. If he is a grinder do what I like to call the “slider”. Move your hips and butt back and forth while sitting all the way down on him. For a better effect have him grip your thighs and help you with the slide motions. Try leaning over a little bit when doing this motion. It will add pressure on your clit(good for you) and will add tightness to his penis while inside you(good for him). Now to do the “sit and spin” do not lift up to turn around. If you do this may bend his penis which is a mood killer and painful for him. Sit all the way down to the base of his penis and take your legs and move them over his stomach and turn. Try these moves and he will make you the head cowgirl of his bedroom rodeo
Nikki True <3
This goes out to the lazy lover. The lovers who likes to take and never give. You like to lay and let your lover do work. All the work to be exact. The lazy lover doesn’t want to do too much when it comes to sex. You are what I like to call a three trick pony: Missionary, Cowgirl(riding), and Doggystyle. After that you will be sleep hogging all the covers. Then you give a list of all the things your partner can’t do. No touching this part, no grabbing that part, wait 30 minutes after eating steak on friday to cum!!! You give no signals that your partner is doing what you like, in fact you pretty much look as if your running down you grocery list in your head. You have no excitement going on when it comes to making love.
if I’ve said it once I’ll say it again. Silence is NOT golden when it comes to sex. Your moans and sexy talk are a guide to your lover. It lets them know that they are pleasing you. If all you’re doing is laying there then how can they know if they are hitting your spot or just annoying the hell out of you? You don’t have to moan like Jenna Jameson, but a “ohh baby” does go a long way. When it comes to touching remember sex is a contact sport. You shouldn’t have a playbook of rules and regulations. You should be comfortable with your partner enough to let them explore your body and you do the same as well. Now that doesn’t mean go Dr. 90210 and start pointing out flaws and imperfections. It means to enjoy what’s sexy about your lover. Caress don’t grab, tickle don’t molest. If you are body conscience then look for positions that accentuate your best features. If you don’t have much of an ass but your breast are awesome then cowgirl. Stomach not so flat, try doggy style. There are plenty of positions and techniques that will make you look and sex at your best. A lazy lover is a choice. Choose to always excite in the bedroom or you may find yourself being a lazy lonely lover.